Wellbeing Overview

Wellbeing is paramount at The Matthew Arnold School and everything we do has the wellbeing of our students and staff at the forefront. We all need to support each other and take the time to look after our wellbeing. There are many outlets that can help that - talk to each other, reach out to someone, have greater awareness of your own wellbeing, and of course there are plenty of resources out there online too. 


The wellbeing of our students, and indeed of all those involved with The Matthew Arnold School, is paramount. Healthy, happy and safe individuals thrive and make progress; stressed, tired and unhappy ones don’t. Despite our acknowledged outstanding record for safeguarding and student welfare, we never rest on our laurels and constantly seek new ways to promote the wellbeing of all. We start this every day by being on the school gate to welcome each student, and finish in the same way to ensure they leave the school site safely and positively.

Additional Support

In times of crisis or if needing further support, please find some useful links and information.


NSPCC | The UK children's charity 


CAMHS: Mental Health Support For Young People | YoungMinds


Student Guide

Coping with Self-Harm

Mindfulness Guide


The curriculum, including relationships and sex education and PSHE lessons, provides an important opportunity to embed wellbeing and resilience. However, changes to the curriculum are only part of the solution to improving wellbeing in schools. Lessons should form part of a wider “whole school approach”.


All staff are responsible for the safeguarding of the children in their care, and all staff receive meticulous training, both initial and ongoing. The safeguarding lead and their dedicated team are highly visible and known to all staff and students. The school complies fully with all Surrey and Trust standards including background checks on staff and regular visitors to school. Safeguarding notices are prominently displayed and all adults wear identity badges. The school site is secure - all boundary fencing is in place and we have electronic gates at the entrance to the school site. Staff and students are highly familiar with emergency procedures and carry out practice drills extremely competently.

The Tutor System

All students have a form tutor they see on a daily basis. Their form tutor is the person who knows them the best, and who is their first port of call for any questions or concerns. Each year group has a head of year, selected for the position because of their proven track record of care and intervention. The form tutors and heads of year move with their students, providing a long-term and stable relationship. The tutor programme is comprehensive and a valued part of the school day. Personal, social and health education, e-safety and sex and relationships education is delivered in part and where appropriate through the tutor programme. Social, moral and spiritual issues are delivered though a weekly assembly and expanded on in tutor time. British values are explored.  Academic progress is monitored and discussed, with opportunities for small intervention groups and one-to-one sessions.

We take our duties very seriously, but actively enjoy being there for students before and after school and during break times. Our staff are keen to volunteer for duties, and at any one time we have at least 20 members of staff on duty at break, including every one of the senior team. There is no area of the school where students don’t feel safe and nowhere where a student is not in sight of a member of staff on duty. This includes toilets, corridors, the Café, sports and play facilities and all outside areas.

Student Counselling

In addition to the pastoral system detailed above, we offer a dedicated programme for students who experience obstacles to their learning. We understand that students may need specialist support and mentoring from time to time for a range of reasons. We are also extremely fortunate to work with East-to-West, a youth relational counselling charity, Kick London and the Mental Health Schools Team.

All schools experience bullying; nationally produced statistics show us that we are foolish to ignore it. It is how a school deals with bullying that is important. We are extremely proactive in our approach. Our school policy reflects the latest national advice and thinking. We involve our students, parents and staff in drawing up and implementing our policy. We educate our children on living and working in a community and we help them to understand the difference between bullying and friendship issues. We never condone or ignore bullying, but work in a restorative way to deal with situations, listening carefully to all sides of a problem and seeking to understand the motivation. At the same time, the school will not hesitate to use the most stringent sanctions when they are needed.

In addition to the activities and educational programmes set up for your children, please encourage them to keep as fit, active and creative as possible. This can be hard if the weather is not great, and if you don't have much outdoor or indoor space, so try these links as a start:

Baking for wellbeing

Art projects to do at homeAudible - free online audiobooks

Relaxation videosA virtual woodland walkYoga on the spot

Help and support

For confidential communication, students may email their form tutor or indeed any teacher for support. Alternatively, Mrs Sheedy and Mrs Ager will be available to give support and advice via email during school hours.

Your browser is out-of-date!

Update your browser to view this website correctly. Update my browser now